Thursday, August 26, 2010
Man in the review mirror

I finished CPE in the Spring of 1988. A few weeks later, my wife was driving our family car and I was driving a large U-Haul truck from Philladelphia, PA to Toledo, OH where I had a job in a Trauma Center. Everything my wife and I owned was in that U-Haul, plus another car was towed behind it.
We got to the outskirts of Harrisburg about rush hour and I was coming down a steep grade in stop-and-go traffic when the brakes started burning. Lots of black smoke was coming out of my wheels. I had no idea how much longer I would have brakes. I was absolutely horrified.
Worse, I was driving in a highway construction zone, so there was no shoulder to pull over into. To my right was just a line of orange barrels. Beyond that was a meager couple of yards to a drop off -- with a long way to the bottom down a steep slippery hillside. If my brakes gave way, there was nowhere to go but right into the back of the guy in front of me.
The guy in the pickup truck before me somehow let me know that he knew I was in trouble -- and that he would use his brakes to help stop me if I lost mine. It would be a gosh-awful mess, but he wasn't going to let me down. I can't express how much that reassurance meant to me. Given the amount of combined weight between the full U-Haul and my car, his truck would have undoubtedly been destroyed.
He would have been injured seriously, perhaps even worse. He had to have known that. It would have been smart for him to get out of our way and let us chance smacking into someone else. But he stayed right in front of us, giving me as much room as he could manage, for as long as I needed it. Moreover, his eyes smiled reassurance in his rearview mirror.
Soon we hit a more level road, traffic started moving better, and the danger passed. But boy was it tense for a while! I never got to thank him personally. I never even saw his face, other than a glimpse of his eyes in his mirror and his hand waving goodbye when he knew I was going to be all right.
Periodically, I still wish good fortune to the man in the pickup who offered to put himself in harm's way to save a man in a runaway U-Haul. It's been almost 22 years and that one selfless act still deeply inspires me. I only hope that if I'm ever called upon to do something that grand, that I'll come through just like the man in the truck did.
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